In my opinion, it doesn't sound good. I think I would seriously consider leaving, especially if there was no celebration of your being together after only a year of marriage. Also, the drinking poses a problem, too, I assume.
I was with an alcoholic and it destroyed our relationship. Please be careful. I hope you make the choice that will be healthier for your well-being.
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