The compassion you express for Aaron, (and even for his gf) concerning their breakup alone clearly states your character alone, Marjan.

You have EVERY reason to be so very proud of yourself, not only for enduring and succeeding the pain he has caused you, but to continue to have the heartfilled compassion that is simply YOUR natural being.
I so highly admire that.

You are a survivor. You are a wonderful person. ANY man who is lucky enough to have you choose them can't know how fortunate they truly ARE.

Continue celebrating YOU, Marjan. You have every right.....

Shangrala