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Originally Posted by treehouse
I mentioned "csa" in my e-mail to her (I was asking her a question about a body worker) and in her return e-mail, she referred to it as " "csa", as you tagged it". AS I TAGGED IT? What does that mean? That it wasn't abuse? That at the age of 4 an 5 I was involved in a mutually satisfying sexual relationship with an adult man? That I asked for it? That I wanted it? That I was a willing participant? Is it possible to be involved sexually with an adult at the age of 4 and 5 and have it NOT be abuse?
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Whooaaa! You taking a small thing and running with it! You are jumping to conclusions by saying that she thinks you were a willing participant, that you wanted it...etc. It sounds to me that she meant that you referred to childhood sexual abuse as "csa". As in you called it as that, and not meaning that she didn't believe it was abuse. I have been confused myself by the acronym, and for awhile didn't know what you were referring to.
It's always better to get clarification on what someone meant rather than to assume things that cause you so much pain. I would be angry too if my experience was minimized, but it doesn't sound like that is what she meant.