Thanks, everyone, for all the encouragement and the advice.
Another T I thought I liked from her pt listing called me back. She sounded nice and listened to me, but something about her voice wasn't right. She was helpful and told me to do what I'm doing--call people, ask questions, and then schedule a few appointments before making up my mind. She's only available in my area once a week, and I don't like that too much.

The expressive arts T left me a message and said I could call tomorrow afternoon. I can't call until later, so I hope I'll be able to reach her.
Since the Ts I liked in their listings on psychologytoday haven't sounded "right' on the phone, I called and left a message for one I wasn't sure about. She went to the same school as the T who told me not to expect hugs, who I emailed, but who knows, maybe she's "the one." She has an awful lot of experience, and my former T said I might like her, and that she's a good person.

I still say that doing this makes me miss my T very much. I don't feel as annoyed with her as I did now that it's 1 week since my session. But the fact is that she didn't help me with the attachment. I've got to remember that!