Rainbow,

Try not to disgard some of them because of their voice. When i first met my t, i didn't feel drawn to her at all. I thought she seemed kind of formal and not warm. I did not pick up on any caring in her voice at first. But as i got to know her, i began to experience her caring ways and nurturing voice. It kind of built up over time.

How about going to meet with 2 or 3 t's and see how you feel in their presence?