MUE- Feeling invalidated and minimized is HUGE for me, too. An issue for me can go on and on if that what is triggered. It is an old feeling that brings up the worthlessness I try to fight all the time.

I hope you dont take this wrong way I am meaning this in a supportive way..or way to understand better. Why does your group T evaluate the people in the group and their contributions after group? In the days before internet when we had group (sounds like the stories told by parents who walked miles to school in a snow storm to show their children they are spoiled by getting a ride) nothing was evaluated and we talked in the next group about what went on. It seems to me to be something that would set someone up to feel less valid or important then another member. If not you than another member would be jealous of someone else's better contribution, insight or value to the group or the T. No? I would be afraid to read these evaluations each week for that reason. Id end up feeling awful unless I was the star of each blog post!