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Originally Posted by deliquesce
even when i'm just talking about uni and stuff, pdoc points out that we're building our relationship too, and that's really important to me when it comes to even venturing near the trauma stuff.
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I SO agree with this. It took me a long time to build up enough safety with T to be able to go near the trauma stuff...and I needed a LONG time (months) to decompress after we had touched on it. Now that I feel connected to T, it's much easier to move in and out of it.
For *me*, safety in the relationship is the absolute KEY to being able to do ANYTHING else.