Why is it some people will say--- when another is faced with a hardship--- " One is never given more than they can handle " ??

That comment makes me mad!!

If that WERE true-- then there wouldn't be vengeful actions taken by those who had more than they could handle, against others-- some just innocent bystanders. And if one is only given what they can handle-- there wouldn't be any injuring of oneself either. ( as in alcohol, drug addiction or any other thing that harms the body)

Please know, I'm just speaking for myself-- not meaning anything against anyone else--- just a bit uneasy tonight.

Sorry....... I hope I haven't gotten anyone upset--- not my intention at all. Just needing to vent and thought I would try it for the first time.

mandy