(((((((((((((mandy)))))))))))

i'm sorry you're having an 'uneasy' time. it's ok to vent. please take care. i agree that it does seem like a rather 'pat' phrase...sort of "one is never given more than they can handle so you should be able to get over this" at least that's sort of how it always seems to me.

((((((((mandy)))))))

-shadow