yeah. i totally get this. i think i have tried to get t to understand she actually has to have me say it. but the words never came out right. i plan and plan to get time to do trauma work. and all i get from t is "we don't do trauma work in here - seems you are unable." but I too am restricted! not allowed! to speak! i dunno. i guess i too will have to tell her she has to invite me to talk about trauma. and not speak maybe or i will just let her fill the silence.

ugh - sorry - hope i didn't hijack