Perna,

I do still see him in public fairly regularly at my school gym, (I am 40yr. old college student) and I keep crossing paths with him other places. (plus I am going into the same field) I know how he will respond because I do really know him personally outside of the office, was with him in therapy for 2 1/2 years, but yet only the first 6-8months were professional. I saw him at this other gym 2-3 times a week during this time. But I know him from his very excessive personal disclosure.

Plus another one of my T's (the 2nd one) tried to talk to him about this, and he was extremely defensive and said things about me that my T#2 at the time wouldn't tell me in order to protect me. I had to quit that T because of his health problems. And now I am with my current T #3 for over a year. It has been over 2 1/2 years since I fired that first T, but yet I still feel very hurt.

I know you probably don't know the whole story, but I don't understand what you mean that this shouldn't concern me. They are doing this for me, because I doubt I will go through with the APA complaint I have started over 2 yrs. ago. (the next stage I would have to meet with a group of psychologists and my old T to discuss what happened) They are doing it in part for me to have some closure about him knowing how his actions hurt me and having these T's stand up for me. (being heard) I do want to know what he says. (at least part of it)