Hi Fallen Angel,
I think I know how you feel. My last T was very kind and understanding most of the time, but a couple of times she took that kind of hard-nosed confrontational approach. It is an awful feeling.

Maybe she is just trying to shake things up. Like Sunrise said....to take a different approach. It might be coming from frustration on her part, or maybe it simply is a tactic that she is using because what she is currently doing is obviously not making a difference.
I just wanted to let you know I understand, and I know it sucks right now.
I hope you can work this out with your T and come to a better understanding of each other.