Gawd I so wanted to stay out of this thread...even though I followed intently cause the poiunts of view really interested me. A bottle of wine does much for someones "need" to say something.(lol actually 2 glasses but Im not a drinker so it might as well been a whole bottle)
All I wanted to say is one...yes, I agree with Heidi COMPLETELY. And I am also saddened watchign several people Ive come tto care about really struggling here...some hurting...some angry...some defensive...and some jsut throwing their hands in the air. I so wish a good "real" hug could ix it all. But we're all human...we have ourown beliefs and thoughts...and to be honest...wht a wonderful world that we can epress them...discuss them....and even voice them. The intent of the thread I think was wonderful...please dont stry from that in defenses. All these subjects are hard...and to some..they can even be painful.to someintrospective. But we have to respect where each person is at and their choices...decisions...and feelings.....i hope this gets back to the real "meat" again and throwing topics back and forth and different viewpoints...that part really fascinated me and I looked forward to the responses and different viewpoints trying to figure out where I was at in it on a mental level.
Darrell...you knwo Icarefor you ...Tomi...what can I saw...youre very special tool..>Rapunzel..I wihs we chatted more though I learn alot from you rposts and think youre fantastic...My Jill...you share my heart , young lady...you share my fears and my shortcommings and weaknmesses that we both fight ,
This thread has been hard at times...Ive resistedthe urge to say anything because i wanted to see where it woukd go...what I would learn from it....2 glasses of wine and I turn into a chatterbox...yikes....but Im thoughtful.....Im looking in hidn=sight and from the ""outside" as well. though many f s follow th ediscussions here with interest.
Yikes...think my keyboard is melting...good sign thats enough from me
Darrell..I luv ya...Tomi..."I"(See that "I"???) luv ya too...Heid..youre agem inmy eyes...Rap youre so kind and knowledgeable....Peanuttier One.,my Jill....You are me in a separate world,what can I say....
We can all really learn from each other ...even when we disagre..even when it hurts...even when we;re frustrated...jsut take the time to sit back and really think it over......
enough
love youguys
and thank you for the soul serching topics youve had....even us quiet ones followed along and appreciated other points of view.Agree with them or not..always appreciated
Jennifer...aka Serenity