I am glad to hear you touched based with your therapist. It's important to learn that sometimes in relationships boundaries get crossed and then how to let each other know, forgive, that it isn't fatal and move forward. You are a very resilient person and I am happy for you. I can see growth potential in you. I really am proud to have had the opportunity to see some of this process. It has given me insight in how I work through reading how others work and this is no different. Up and down as life goes.