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white_iris said: i much prefer someone to say nothing, or admit they don't know what to say and give me a hug, hand or just sit quietly beside me.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Thank you for letting the board know what type of support you need. It can be very important for us to learn to write out specifically what our needs are so that we aren't bombarded by the exact opposite of what we are seeking.

Now we know not to offer "trite" sayings when you're in need. We now know to instead say that we lack the words and are quietly here. Just like we often put in our posts or threads that we do not wish for any hugs as sometimes they are not they kind of support that helps us.

Good job expressing yourself w_i. You've helped all of us on these forums who aren't mind readers!