I am SO GLAD you talked to your T.....What an awesome conversation! And KUDOS to you for speaking up and getting the message across. THAT is huge!!!!
(As an aside, Farmergirl, some co-workers of mine came up with a word to describe me - "sardonic" - LOL....Nothing like being referred to as a word that is derived from a plant that causes a facial expression of laughter then ultimately death.

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