Wow. It's hard to even know what to say, except that I am so sorry that you can't get away from him at the gym and that all that happened to you in the first place. I am glad you a good therapist to work through some of your feelings with now...

One thing that came to mind when you mentioned the other therapist who wants to talk to him about his behavior...I thought about all of the other clients he could be mistreating, too, and perhaps, when/if you are ready, you and this other therapist might have some power to help them and stop his out-of-control behavior. He should really not be allowed to practice anymore, in my opinion; he crossed way too many boundaries with you, and I am guessing he has no concept of boundaries in the first place.

Anyway, take care of yourself as you work through this. Congrats on standing up for yourself!

And I just read your last post...of course you have mixed emotions about him...therapy is so intense that it's hard not to still feel "close" to him in some ways, I am sure. That has to be tough...