Hmmmmmmmm Fuzzy, good question.
My biggest problem sometimes is that I always say what I mean, even in anger. I am always very careful with what I say, but I mean every word of it.
When I compliment someone or something, or be nice, it is because that is what I am feeling at the moment - sincerely and genuinely. For me, there is no other way.
[shrug] my T tells me that is why when I give him my promise or word on something, he never doubts me. It is the one thing I pride myself on.
It's also why sometimes I keep my mouth shut......lol. Better to bite my tongue unless directly asked a question.
Mary Alice