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Hey Myers,
I remember you the other day when you posted about your new baby girl Alice. BTW that was a beautiful tribute by your present wife naming your daughter after your late wife Alice. I'm so sorry you had an abusive father and you lost your 1st wife in a car accident - that was a terrible lie your father told you. Are you wheelchair bound? Would you mind me asking if you've actually been diagnosed a psychopath or are you assuming you'll turn out like your father?
It's easy when you've been through trauma like you have, to turn hateful but if you work on healing, there's no guarantee you'll be like him. He's not alive anymore, yet he still has control over you as long as the hate has a hold of you. Do you have a therapist and are you on medication?
You have a new baby girl - babies are born with a clean slate and new life. I also know babies can also put alot of stress on parents and your wife will need support. I know you're used to her accomodating you, so this might make you feel more stressed.
Have you been taught management skills to control your anger? If not I encourage you to join one of those anger support groups. You can also learn deep slow breathing exercises and counting to ten when you're upset. I see you don't like your MIL but it best to try to get along, since it's your wifes mother and this is her 1st grandchild. Remember just because you're your father's son, doesn't mean you're guaranteed to turn out like him.
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 This is our little cutie Bella 
*Practice on-line safety.
*Cheaters - collecting jar of hearts.
*Make your mess, your message.
*"Be the change you want to see" (Gandhi)
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