I don't think the two things are incompatable most of the time, (((((((((Fuzzywuzzy)))))))). Integrity of one's word is the most important I think, but usually there is something positive to find in most posts, and, certainly, in most people, so highlighting that aspect that you sincerely admire or appreciate about them is not being disingenuious - it's false flattery that is the thing to avoid, and If one disagrees completely, they can give a candid answer offered compassionately, or choose not to say anything at all. BTW, you do a good job of balancing these things I think, Fuzzy - that has certainly been my experience anyway. XOXO, Peanutty

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