It has taken me a year to learn this with her and now when it seems like SHE gets worried after a heavy session with me, I tell her, well you taught me that the feelings don't last. I tell her I know I can handle it, I will just ride the wave. She always smiles then. Just knowing that, has left me brave enough to keep diving into the hard stuff. I told her she needs to have a surfing board in her office to remind clients of that. lol But when the waves are bad, I say they are tsunami waves, but even those eventually calm down.