thank you guys. i was talking to someone and, although i know we can't diagnose.. they told me he seems to have borderline personality disorder. he has basically all of the symptoms, the main one being sudden swings from love to hate in relationships.

i have been seeing someone, and basically they just want me on sleeping meds and anxiety meds. he and i are broke up now, but i am trying to be with him again if i can get him to calm down. i've weighed the pros and cons of it all, and i truly believe if he can get help, things would be fantastic. his good side is amazing, and i really do want to marry the guy.

i've been talking to his family about maybe doing some sort of intervention because he will not get himself help. the ones he is closest to seem to just think he's hopeless and not worth the effort, but i've found some of his cousins that are going to see if there is anything that can be done.

i thought maybe if they got a doctor over to the house and a bunch of his family together, they could get him to talk or at least talk to the doctor with him there so he could see that there is something wrong. i'm hoping i get to be there, but i don't know if that would set him off even more.