My psychiatrist is aware that I haven't shared the information about my friend. He believes that I am at a point in my life where I am ready to move on from an unsatisfactory relationship, so I am guessing that is why he didn't comment on my deception.

I have dysthymia and have never been at a point where I am non-functioning. Yes, I realize that could change. I have always been a good, loyal friend and I don't plan on changing. I think balance is key when doing anything, and that will always be my goal.

I believe that each of us meet people throughout our life's journey that help us to grow. I am helping my friend and he is helping me.

I told you what I said to my friend in terms of treatment. Ultimately it is up to the person to decide whether they want to be treated. He has not told me if he's been diagnosised, I am guessing he has DID by his behavior and some of the things he has shared with me. I am not a Dr., I am a friend.

If I thought he was in danger, I would encourage him to seek treatment. I have only known him a short while, as well. If you just met someone, and they suggested you get medical help, how would you feel? If it were me, I would think the person presumptious and judgmental.

The nature of the illness is also relevant. If it were something physical that could be remedied by my suggestion, that would be altogether different. This case is much more subjective. I am supporting him by not judging him and being a friend. If that is wrong, so be it.

As I said, I am proceeding with extreme caution and will discuss this with my psychiatrist at length when he returns. Thank you for your thoughtful comments and your concern.