ok.. I am giong to give you advice from a woman who has been the one who cheated with a single man but who was married ok. .

THe married men never want to leave they have a security blanket effect and they do not want to give it up. It is hard to fiqure out how is mind is working when one is disabled due to surgery and all, but if he has not left her and they have two kids I do not see him leaving her for you, or anyone else for that matter..

I do not mean to be the bearer of bad news, but he may only be using you as an outlet for "sex" and may only lead you on till you say no more.. Yes I knwo it only happend once or whatever.. (no detalis ok)

I want you to be safe I know love hurts whenyou are in a stitution like this..