I am an extremely outgoing person. I will pretty much do anything for a laugh and make an *** out of myself for others' amusement. So it kind of bugs me when people are so reserved and closed off. Or it seems like they don't really have a personality period. Like they take on others' personalities depending on who they're around. Does that make sense? Just really uptight and insecure about themselves. How do you bring someone out of their shell to make them comfortable in their own skin? Or is it too late once a person gets to a certain age? Is this a behavior they learn very early on so once they get to a certain point they will always be this way?