i think you're right that he may have PTSD, and i tried talking to someone at a marines help chat, and she pretty much said get over him and leave him to deal with it alone. his family has been really sweet, they just tell me to hold on and keep positive, and say i am part of the family no matter what happens with him. i'm just trying to get him to call me. he always calms down when we talk on the phone, but the night i overdosed he smashed his phone so i couldn't call him right away. now he has a phone but he refuses to speak to me. if i could get him to go back to normal with me i would have a decent chance of getting him to talk about things and maybe getting help.