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Originally Posted by kaihigdontog
the problem is times like the other day i was so wired that she said i scared her. nothing seems to help with my mood swings so i am redy to call it quits and i dont want her to be around for that cuse i know that it would hert her and she would think she caused it. so i have to let her go.
"one you love some one you must let them fly"
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I have found the truth is the best way to go. tell her right now you are going through some pretty intense things. she has already witnessed to a lesser degree how dangerous to others things can get. you don't want to hurt her in any way so you are going to take a step back and take the time you need to work out whatever is going on with you. let her know you have no idea how long it will take to work out everything so you are letting her know now that you need space and time. and that you will call her when you can be sure that you can be with her without causing any harm to her emotionally nor physically. when I have done this they thank me for keeping their wellbeing in mind and they wish me well and luck on my healing journey. one person even gave me a 4 leaf clover key chain and a fake rabbits foot for luck and to keep me safe on my healing journey.
