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Old Feb 01, 2010, 02:15 PM
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Originally Posted by salukigirl View Post
I wasn't trying to offend anybody and I'm sorry. This person has openly said that they know they are insecure and would like to change that. I'm not trying to go around making everyone just like me. Sorry if it came across the wrong way. This person has already said all these things to me and said that they wish they were different.
Lots of hugs (or implied ones) and reassurance and quiet encouragement are the things I think that will give someone more self-assurance so they can become more the way they would like to be.
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