there is an old saying and i believe the "Georgia Satellites" used it in a song. "why buy the cow, when the milk is free?"..or something like that.
his wife is awful, he doesn't like her, she never does anything, he does everything, her hand is hurt, they don't have sex, the last child is not his, he loves you, be patient......what a crock! married men do this 1,000 times a day...it's also called, "having your cake and eating it, too".
did you know, if he is a cop, that he can lose his job, if your affair comes to light. then he'll really run from you.
sorry, to be harsh. but reality is reality. pat