the thing is, moving in was his idea. i just asked him what he wanted because he had been saying he wanted to see me for christmas, and then he said "move here" and i said "are you absolutely sure?" and he said he was, and then he started telling me his financial information for rent and how he was going to start saving. i let him know if that was too much stress we could just forget about it for now because i was more than happy with phone calls whenever he wasn't working until i could see him again. i can't even get him to agree to call me or just tell me what's going on. that's all i'm asking from him right now - a phone call. he won't even reply when i ask him how he has been. he just gets really, really angry. the last thing he said to me before he started randomly hating me was "i love you, i am just so stressed right now, but i love you very much" it's just weird.

but yeah.. all i've been asking of him is to call when he's not busy.. and i've started texting him each morning to say i hope he has a good day and then i say goodnight to him and that i love him.