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Originally Posted by jacpeaceandlove
I do that but sometimes i feel like that's not enough. I feel powerless and i really love her, were suppose to move in together this summer. I want to know how to treat good, ill always be there for her if she wants to talk, and i always tell her how much i love her during how painc attacks trying to calm her down but it doesnt work. then she thinks bad of herself saying i deserve someone better, but i dont cause she mean everything to me. I really want to marry her
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that's exactly how i feel about my ex when he gets cruel toward me.
funnily enough, he started laughing at me when i cried when i was having panic attacks. he started doing it because when he'd tell me not to cry and he loved me, i'd cry harder because it made me miss him so much since he lives far away. when he started laughing, i'd call him mean and start laughing too.
if nothing else, you'll stumble upon something with all your efforts that comforts her somehow.