I wish I could tell you what to do. It sounds like your girlfriend has had a very tough time in life and there doesn't seem to be any relief in site. It must be very hard on you too. Make sure you are taking care of yourself and your needs too.

It is good that she can open up to you a little but it's not good that when you mention getting help she closes down. If she is BP then she needs help.

There are people here dealing with BP and I hope they can give you some good advice. I just wanted to let you know I read your post and am sending a hug.

Heidu


When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.- Alexander Graham Bell