See I don't think that he is vicous and a natural liar and cheater. like I stated we have been friends for six years so it is not like I just met him and started having an affiar. So I don't think it is all crap, I really don't. I mean, if I didn't know him and didn't think it was the absolute truth then I would agree that it was a ll a bunch of crock. I know he cares deeply for me. I know this without a doubt.

I can't wait for twenty years definatly not. I am 25 and still young. I just wished I could forget all about this. Unfortunatly it is not easy. And I don't think this divorce will ever be quick enough, if it evens happen. IF being the operative word. I mean, no matter how miserable someone is, they will stay if it means they don't have to give up something. He would be giving up a lot. Thank you all for your advice........................how do I get over him? How do I cut the cord? I shouldn't wait for him?