I feel for you... you have put yourself in a tough spot.

Can I suggest looking at two views?----

OK-- #1--- you hold out for this guy-- the non-liar, cheater! Suppose- 10 years down the road he does leave his wife for you. His children hate you-- as the "woman that destroyed our family"-- his wife resents you and maybe some of his family can't stand you-- how long can you put up with so much negative energy?? The saying goes-- you don't just marry the person you marry the family!! I believe you should think about the WHOLE picture!! It's not just you and him!!

here's another picture--

#2---- you go on with your young life- dating and find an excellent - honest- totally and solely in love with you man. His family cares about you and you can make a family together rich in love and trust!

Now, which picture would you choose??? It really is all up to you-- not anyone else!! You do have the power over your future-- sure there is no guarantee that Mr. Wonderful will drop into your life--- but is being with a married man really worth wasting your chances at meeting that Mr. Wonderful??

I wish you well and hope the best for you.

mandy