I am glad many of you understand my post. I still feel bad for those I may have offended. I think growth comes from challenging ourselves and sometimes that is good and sometimes it is bad. I really should have been a little more diplomatic, but I felt the topic was one that needed to be addressed to promote people taking charge of their process instead of letting others tell us what we have and how to go about fixing ourselves. I think I need help at times but that it is my place to decide my owns truths and do my own work with the help of responsible assistance from responsible people.