Thanks guys. We talked for probably about 8 hours yesterday and got a lot of stuff out in the open. Whether that means it can be fixed or not I don't know. I told him that I miss the old him and finally got him to talk about stress from grad school and graduating. I still don't feel very confident that this is going to work out but we'll see. I have just been pushed around by men so much that I absolutely refuse to let someone talk to me that way. So its really hard to get over when the person you're supposed to confide in calls you names and screams at you. Ugh.