Oh my Kerria
T's need to be supportive. From what you said it doesn't sound very supportive. I'm very sorry. I don't know what to say at this point. If T is saying that they can't help you then I don't think that they should of started having the parts come out in the first place. Is almost like reopening a wound and then tossing salt in it. If a T is going to work with anyone with DID they have to understand that it's long and hard work. Sounds like T was in over their head. But that doesn't help you any with what T has opened up. Just understand that we are all here for you when you need to talk. All we can offer you is our support here. Please don't hate yourself. But I can understand how bad it's feeling right now.
Here for you, Monty