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Feb 04, 2010, 01:56 PM
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Member Since: Feb 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 12,269
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Although I didn't go through the exact same thing you have, I did suffer a stunning shock about my own husband. I used to have it in my 'about me' but I found some people felt protective and didn't like him - which didn't help me as you said in your first post. I still live with my husband but don't sleep together. We are very civil and respectful to each other depsite what's happened for the childrens sake.
So I understand what it's like to wake and feel like your husbands a different person and your world is upside down. This was 3 yrs ago for me. It's will be hard for you and you'll go through many emotions and it will come on you like waves in the ocean - some days calm and some days furious. I remember waking up feeling like I have a load of cement blocks on my back, but I got through it and so will you in time.
I'm sorry you're lonely and I know how it hurts to find out painful things about the person you love. I think you'll find alot of comfort here and don't let people get into blaming him. It won't do you any good to have those emotions - although I did go through my angry stage but constructively. Best of luck
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Last edited by lynn P.; Feb 04, 2010 at 03:36 PM.
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