Have you sat down with Hubby and really explained what is happening with you, you are not alone, and perhaps he can understand if you really break it down. That is what the mental conditions will do, attack your core so that even the simplest task of washing dishes is very very overwelming. I am married too and on the days when my condition just gets the better of me, I have to lift up my hands and say to heck with the dishes. Either they stay in the sink till the time I can muster the energy to clean them or My hubby will do them. It's not about being 20, it's about having a difficult diagnosis that is very hard to live with. Don't be so hard on yourself. For better or worse as the marriage vows say, it's time he helped you.