I did like mightaswelllive sort of and gave my T some little thing of mine to "hold" for me until I asked for it back (only in this case you'd never ask for it back). Giving some of you to her might work? My T traveled a whole lot, all over the world, and when we terminated I gave her a little glass globe of the world, a paperweight sort of thing (that was blue which I knew was her favorite color). That way I can picture her looking at it, wherever she is, and thinking of me.