It's an interesting topic, and you absolutely make a valid point. I myself don't really "label" myself in this matter, but yes, I'm okay with guys or girls; I have to be in love with them, but gender doesn't stop me. Others might consider me bi-curious, mostly because I've had more sexual experiences with girls than guys (though I've never gone farther with a girl than making out and heavy petting). ((I'm a girl, in case that matters...)) I think there's way too large of a stigma on bisexuality and homosexuality. I myself have many gay, bi, and lesbian (and one transgendered) friends, because while I may not have fallen for a girl, I've fallen for the "wrong" guy. I knew it, and I could do nothing about it. It is horribly and morally wrong to be essentially tormented because of something one has no control over! Given the choice, I've heard many homo/bisexuals say that they'd rather be straight, cause being openly gay is hell!

I'm done now