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Old Feb 04, 2010, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted by KathyM View Post
I suspect her distance is BECAUSE she really loves and cares for you.

Most likely, her own personal plate is overflowing and it's making her feel a little queasy i.e., deep concern for her own family and friends outside of "work." You are not her work, you are her pleasure. You are her pleasure because it makes her feel like she's got what it takes to make a difference in this world. It feels really good to have the ability to touch someone and make a positive difference in their world.

The very last thing she'd want to do is burden you with her own personal problems. She knows it would upset you because you'd want to fix her - you can't. It might also make her feel as if she is abandoning her own family/friends. It could cause her to give up on everyone.

I wouldn't push it with her - give her a little breathing space, and show her you care.....from a distance. It will prove to her she still has what it takes to care for tender hearts. It will make you both stronger.

We don't have to fix each other.....we just need to care about each other.

Now.....DO WHAT SHE SAYS....or else!

Sounds like you know what your talking about.... but you don't know me, I sense the smallest things wrong.... I can't take people being mad at me.
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