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JayS · Feb 04, 2010, 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by lynn P.

(((Jay))),
your case worker needs to be professional, but sometimes her emotions might slip through a little. She may be having problems outside of work or something made her in a bad mood that day. There may be some stressful things going on in her life. You're sensitive to peoples emotions and you can't tolerate people being upset with you.

There another possibility - that she might be slightly discouraged that you were doing well and now you're struggling - of course this isn't your fault. Since she's not in your personal life, she has no reason to lie to you. Her emotions are really irelevent because that would be unprofessional of her -right? If you like you could ask her. I think you're very respectful to her, so I don't think it's you Jay. I know you had problems with your mom abusing you, so I think you're ultra sensitive to women's emotions. You shouldn't quit Jay - it's her job to work with you. Hang in there, don't worry and keep trying - okay?

Hi Lynn

You know me so well....

I won't quit okay, but I have to ask her what's going on.... I can see in her eyes and facial movements that something is wrong, I just hope it's not about me, I'm trying my best to get better..... Sometimes I wish you were my case worker, you're so nice and always give good advice.