You can't just say he's right, Shirley. You know he isn't. Do you think you could be calmer knowing you are recording the conversation? Even if you get upset, that's ok. If you were an ice queen, that would be upsetting too. Tape as many conversations as you can, then let your lawyer decide how many, if any should/could be used.

Don't let him push you around like this. You're a good mom and a strong lady. Your kids will thank you for this later. We're always here if you start feeling down. And you know you can always PM me.