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Also, I don't mean to imply that it is you or your thinking that is FOR SURE the problem. It may well be something is going on in her life, and by talking honestly with her about your own feelings, she may open up a bit to you and let you know you are okay, that it's her problem. Though some therapist seem to go by the principle that they simply do NOT talk about their own personal lives or feelings. If she seems evavise, ask her if that is her policy. If so, knowing that my put you more at ease.
Just because someone is a pdoc or a therapist or social worker, does not mean they don't have their own issues. And like the rest of us they may not be aware of them or know how to deal any better than the rest of us do. They are human also.
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