welcome to the group. I had to have a complete hysterectomy when I was 24. My husband told my dr no that it would ruin our sex life. I let him have that control just to please him. It finally got so bad that I took my life into my own hands and scheduled the surgery. Personally I would have loved it had my husband been as supportive and trying to sooth me as you seem to be with your wife. Having her surgery rescheduled 2 times I certainly understand you calling her dr to find out what was going on. Be very patient with her once it is done. It all depends on her attitude going in as to what her life will be like afterwards. Let her know you are there beside her and will stay there. There will be many changes but I am here to tell you I felt so much better after the recovery. Good luck to you and your wife.