Hi LightWalker,

What has kept you in the relationship so far? What is the positive side of your boyfriend?

We've heard lots of negatives about him! But.... there is a reward in there somewhere. What is the reward for you? Perhaps you should take both positives and negatives of the relationship in mind. Seeing those written down could help you determine what is really important to you. Then you could figure out how to acheive your goal/s.

A big challenge within relationships is for people to be open and willing to make some changes periodically. Through those changes, the relationships become deeper. Without necessary changes, people go different ways. The result is growing apart and resentment. Sad.

I hope that you get things figured out soon. Best wishes to you!