Allison, I'm so sorry to hear about your situation! I completely empathize with feeling like you don't have friends to help. It sounds like you have a really tough situation because of all the conflicts of interest with your best friend/good friend. However, on the positive side, I bet your best guy friend will eventually realize that it is better to have you as a friend than not at all. It can be hard to get over rejection, but I think he'll come around!

In the meantime, maybe you can try meeting new people in your area? You could try joining a sports team, or a book club, or signing up for a social group on Meetup.com. It can be hard to find ways to make friends but maybe that will give you some ideas.

Hope that helps!