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lynn P. · Feb 06, 2010, 03:34 PM

Welcome to PC Unconstruct - I agree it's not fair that you've been shunned and mistreated at other sites. I also agree fetishes are okay as long as you or your partner is fine with it. You do mention you're a tad uncomfortable and would at least want more control and it's interfering with your personal relationships,so I think you should explore this with a trained therapist, who deals with fetishes. I looked it up on Wikepedia and it stated that sometimes people with this fetish also enjoy dirtying the diapers. Please know you're free not to answer, if this makes you uncomfortable - I would like to understand. Do you depend on this as the only way to be aroused or can you take it or leave it? I wonder also - are there people who also like to see others in diapers and if there are - wouldn't a person like that be an ideal partner? I would imagine there are support groups for this.

I answers questions in the Q&A section and there was a poster, who had a husband who insisted on shaving some of her hair while having sex. So it just goes to show you, there are many kinds of fetishes. I remember reading that fetishes start as children - somehow the object etc becomes associated with arousal. Best of luck in managing it and finding a balance so you can have a fulfilling relationship - I think that's what you want.