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Old Feb 06, 2010, 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted by googley View Post
I'm feeling like she really doesn't like me. Maybe she just wants to get rid of me...
But googley -- aren't thoughts like that part of what you're in therapy to work on? Believing them and acting on them is about the last thing you want to be doing. What I recommend is: keep taking care of business, keep putting one foot in front of the other, and watch the thoughts go by.

If a thought happens by that you find especially bothersome, don't get into a fight with it. Invite it in for coffee, sit it down, and ask it point blank:

How do you know that?

Somewhat along those same lines, here's a Zen story for you, if only to keep you entertained while you're waiting for your T to call you.
Thanks for this!
googley